Let's cut to the chase because we all are familiar with the myths of cat being antisocial, easy going and low maintenance pets. However YES! cats do get lonely. Especially if you are working long hours and leave them alone for the most part of the day. If you are gone for more than a day than the probability is even higher.
Factors
Just like everything, there are certain factors that determine the extent of your feline friend’s loneliness or lack thereof. Cats are less social animals inherently because they are not pack animals like dogs or wolves but domestic cats adapt to their environment and are more sociable than their wild ancestors.Some may be social towards humans but not with other fellow felines, while some may be socially accepting of both. There are a number of variables involved but here’s how you can determine the likelihood of your furry friend being lonely.
Age
Age is a great factor when it comes to feline behaviour. The aloof behaviour does not kick in till the cat reaches adulthood, whereas kittens need constant reassurance, play and snuggles just like any baby. So, if you are the proud but tired owner of playful kitten, the chances of it being lonely are higher.
History
The way cats have been treated in the past and the time when they were separated from their litter also play a very important role in determining their personality type.
The Gender MYTH
You may be surprised to know this but no, gender is not a factor in determining whether a cat gets lonely or not. Like most facts about felines this too is a myth.
How to Tell
It is important be aware of the factors that influence the personality and the possible loneliness of your cat, however you do not have to do all the hard work. If a cat is lonely, depressed or anxious it will generally tell you loud (literally!) and clear.
Excessive Vocalization
Some cats are already pretty vocal about everything however if you notice excessive meowing that is not normal than pay heed. Because just like a crying baby your fur baby is also asking for attention.
Change in Behaviour
Any changes in behaviour like eating habits, sluggishness or hiding is a sign that something is up with your kitty. The initial thought is a health concern which must be ruled out by a visit to a vet. However a clean bill of health and odd behaviour combined are the textbook symptoms of anxious behaviour.
Destruction
You left the house for work and returned to a house that looks like a set from a action movie! The culprit? Your four legged furry friend that destroyed everything it could get its paws on. This act of mass destruction is a cry for attention and instead of punishing your kitty cats you should make sure to spend quality time with them while also ascertaining the presence of ample stimuli when you cannot be around.
Excessive Grooming
Cats are naturally clean creatures that are quite fussy about their luxurious fur however if you notice that things are getting a bit over the top where grooming is concerned; IT IS NOT NORMAL! Specially if your fur baby is pulling out its fur or injuring itself in the process. This is a clear sign of anxiety and stress that is projected via over grooming.
Remedies
Of course you love your cats and want to keep them happy and healthy but you cannot do anything about your work hours. Here’s what you can do.
More TOYS!
Just like your kids; even a store full of toys is not enough if your cat is alone for most of the day and showing signs of anxiety. The more stimulated and occupied they are the better. Cat Evolution has a range of stylish and modern cat trees that will keep your cat happy and busy.
Cat Sitter
Leaving a cat alone for days and nights is a very bad idea. If you are going somewhere for more than a day, hire a cat sitter or call in a favor to a friend. They do not have to be there full time but changing the water, feeding the cats and cleaning the litter box is a must. Spending some time playing with the cats is an added plus which will keep them engaged making them less likely to fall privy to depression. You can also make the task of substitute parent easier with some automatic help for feeding, water and litter box. Cat Evolution has some great solutions to help you with covering long hours away.
Your Scent
Leaving a shirt or sweater out with your scent is also a good way to keep your furry friend assured that you have not completely forsaken them. Cats bond through scents and having a shirt that smells like your hooman (😉 even humans enjoy that) is reassuring.
Radio TV with Cat Videos
Leave the TV or radio on, background noise will maintain the illusion of presence in the house and keep your feline calm. It can also be a source of entertainment for your kitty if you can leave on a cat video. Youtube has an endless supply!
Another Cat!
Well, you know the entire thing was building up to this! If you can afford it and think that your cat will be welcoming to another fur ball than getting a second cat is the best thing you can do.
Factors
Just like everything, there are certain factors that determine the extent of your feline friend’s loneliness or lack thereof. Cats are less social animals inherently because they are not pack animals like dogs or wolves but domestic cats adapt to their environment and are more sociable than their wild ancestors.Some may be social towards humans but not with other fellow felines, while some may be socially accepting of both. There are a number of variables involved but here’s how you can determine the likelihood of your furry friend being lonely.
Age
Age is a great factor when it comes to feline behaviour. The aloof behaviour does not kick in till the cat reaches adulthood, whereas kittens need constant reassurance, play and snuggles just like any baby. So, if you are the proud but tired owner of playful kitten, the chances of it being lonely are higher.
History
The way cats have been treated in the past and the time when they were separated from their litter also play a very important role in determining their personality type.
- Cats that are separated too soon from their litter will tend to be more clingy and need more affection.
- Shelter cats that have been maltreated are likely to be less sociable with humans as well as other animals.
- The type of breed also determines the need for companionship, especially in purebred cats. Persian are more aloof and passive while Siamese are very vocal and sociable.
The Gender MYTH
You may be surprised to know this but no, gender is not a factor in determining whether a cat gets lonely or not. Like most facts about felines this too is a myth.
How to Tell
It is important be aware of the factors that influence the personality and the possible loneliness of your cat, however you do not have to do all the hard work. If a cat is lonely, depressed or anxious it will generally tell you loud (literally!) and clear.
Excessive Vocalization
Some cats are already pretty vocal about everything however if you notice excessive meowing that is not normal than pay heed. Because just like a crying baby your fur baby is also asking for attention.
Change in Behaviour
Any changes in behaviour like eating habits, sluggishness or hiding is a sign that something is up with your kitty. The initial thought is a health concern which must be ruled out by a visit to a vet. However a clean bill of health and odd behaviour combined are the textbook symptoms of anxious behaviour.
Destruction
You left the house for work and returned to a house that looks like a set from a action movie! The culprit? Your four legged furry friend that destroyed everything it could get its paws on. This act of mass destruction is a cry for attention and instead of punishing your kitty cats you should make sure to spend quality time with them while also ascertaining the presence of ample stimuli when you cannot be around.
Excessive Grooming
Cats are naturally clean creatures that are quite fussy about their luxurious fur however if you notice that things are getting a bit over the top where grooming is concerned; IT IS NOT NORMAL! Specially if your fur baby is pulling out its fur or injuring itself in the process. This is a clear sign of anxiety and stress that is projected via over grooming.
Remedies
Of course you love your cats and want to keep them happy and healthy but you cannot do anything about your work hours. Here’s what you can do.
More TOYS!
Just like your kids; even a store full of toys is not enough if your cat is alone for most of the day and showing signs of anxiety. The more stimulated and occupied they are the better. Cat Evolution has a range of stylish and modern cat trees that will keep your cat happy and busy.
Cat Sitter
Leaving a cat alone for days and nights is a very bad idea. If you are going somewhere for more than a day, hire a cat sitter or call in a favor to a friend. They do not have to be there full time but changing the water, feeding the cats and cleaning the litter box is a must. Spending some time playing with the cats is an added plus which will keep them engaged making them less likely to fall privy to depression. You can also make the task of substitute parent easier with some automatic help for feeding, water and litter box. Cat Evolution has some great solutions to help you with covering long hours away.
Your Scent
Leaving a shirt or sweater out with your scent is also a good way to keep your furry friend assured that you have not completely forsaken them. Cats bond through scents and having a shirt that smells like your hooman (😉 even humans enjoy that) is reassuring.
Radio TV with Cat Videos
Leave the TV or radio on, background noise will maintain the illusion of presence in the house and keep your feline calm. It can also be a source of entertainment for your kitty if you can leave on a cat video. Youtube has an endless supply!
Another Cat!
Well, you know the entire thing was building up to this! If you can afford it and think that your cat will be welcoming to another fur ball than getting a second cat is the best thing you can do.